If I Pay Attention to My Wife … If I Notice a Change in My Wife. My wife goes to the hairdresser once a month. It seems like the same beautician is always in charge at my favorite hairdresser. However, after 5 years of marriage, I became indifferent to my wife and did not care about changing her hairstyle. If I paid more attention to my wife, this would not have happened … And when I noticed, my wife went to the hairdresser several times a month. The hairstyle did not change. To see that young hairdresser.